Meeting Resistance: Accepting What-Is
"Oh, you heavenly charmers,
What things you make of us! For what we lack
We laugh, for what we have are sorry, still
Are children in some kind. Let us be thankful
For that which is, and with you leave dispute
That are above our question. Let's go off
And bear us like the time."
~William Shakespeare
*When you change, everything changes.* While you can't make reality change, when you accept reality it, in fact, changes. The event no longer bothers you. the coworker behaves differently, because they can. They don't have to push back -- because you're not pushing...