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• March 1, 2022
  1Mar2022

  Love's in need of love today

  

  The gospel according to Stevie Wonder goes like this: 

  Love’s in need of love today

  Don’t delay, send yours in right away

  Hate’s goin' 'round breakin' many hearts

  Stop it, please, before it’s gone too far

  Love’s in need of love today

  And from Thích Nhất Hạnh 

  When you understand and you show you understand, you can love, and the situation changes.

  I recently returned from The Magic of Skiing program, held yearly by my friend and mentor, author and teacher Thomas Crum. It was indeed a magical program--a week of meditation, physical activity, deep conversation and community in the magical town of Aspen, Colorado. And, of course, skiing!! What I walked away with was a renewed sense of wonder at the love that exists in each of us.....

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• December 31, 2019
  31Dec2019

  Looking Back From the Future

  

  When I first met Thomas Crum, my most generous mentor in this work I do with conflict and aikido, he asked the group he was leading to partner up and do an exercise on visioning--a very different kind of visioning.

  Instead of imagining the year ahead and writing down goals, Tom asked us to imagine we were looking back on the year ahead from a vantage point of having already lived it.

  We were to tell our partner all the things we hoped the year would bring--financial well-being, strong relationships, physical health, workplace success--but in a way that told the story as if these things had already happened. 

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• November 12, 2013
  12Nov2013

  Filming for Harvard: An Adventure in Taking Myself Less Seriously

  

  When Harvard Business Publishing asked to interview and fillm me a few months ago, I was honored and delighted. They said they wanted a 2-3 minute video that would engage their management audience in the question: Why is learning to manage difficult conversations a key leadership skill? It didn't occur to me that vanity might play a part. And it was tempting, I have to say, to take myself a little too seriously…

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